Have Something to Say to Your Ex? Say it Here, Now
Have Something to Say to Your Ex? One of the biggest challenges that we often face after we breakup with someone, particularly when we’ve been dumped by them, is that we have all of these unresolved thoughts, words, and feelings that have nowhere to go.
These thoughts can end up marinating in our minds, driving us crazy, for hours, days, weeks, months or even longer….Wouldn’t it be great if you could just get it all out?
Well you can, here, now.
Say what you need to say to get over your ex. To get it out of your head.
The Dead Message Office (DMO)
Years ago, circa 2005, on our forum, a lovely site member, licketysplit, started the “Dead Message Office” (aka the DMO).
The DMO was a thread that struck a cord in almost every site member who ever visited this site. It was a place to say what you wanted to say to your ex.
This could sometimes be something as simple as “I miss you” or other times as angry as “I f**king hate you”. Sometimes it was simple like “I had a dream about you last night”.
There were members who came and tended to ask questions like, “what’s s/he got that I’ve not got?” or “what did I do to deserve this?”
Many wondered things like “Did you love me at all?”, “Do you miss me?”, “Do you think of me?” or “How could you!?!”
Sometimes people simply just wanted to say “I’m sorry”.
It really could be anything. This thread was as varied as the people of the world who used it, and I thought it was worth resurrecting here, now.
Have YOU ever had this experience where you had things you wanted to tell your ex, but for whatever reason you couldn’t?
Maybe they moved on to someone else. Maybe you were too angry. Perhaps you were too scared or embarrassed. It could be any reason really, but now you can…
Say What You Want to Your Ex
Here is your chance to just vent whatever it is you need to tell him or her.
You’d be amazed how good it feels to share your feelings and just get it out. It may also help you to read other people’s stories, feelings, pain, emotions. You’ll realise you’re not alone, because you’re honestly not.
Whatever it is your feeling, whoever you are, wherever you are, someone else is feeling it too.
If fifteen years of running this site has taught me anything, it’s that heartbreak is truly universal.
So please tell your ex you love ’em, hate ’em, or miss them – whatever you want.
Basic Rules About Your Post and Your Ex
Use the comments field below, but please don’t use only first names and no super-specific details. All comments on SYBD are hand moderated as it were.
So please watch the profanity. If you need to curse – throw in a few ** – will you? I’d appreciate it…
If you don’t have something specific to say to your ex you could simply share how, when and where your breakup happened.
Before You Go, Writing a Letter to an Ex
If you do have something you actually want to say, and want to write a letter to your ex, then here are a few articles that may be useful:
- 5 Things to Consider Before Writing a Letter to Your Ex
- Writing a Letter to an Ex…
- Thank You Letter to An Ex