Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too on SYBD

Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too

Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too on SYBD

Wanna Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too?

Here’s a post especially for all who are going through breakups and hoping to speak to others personally and privately about their ex…Sometimes the best help we can get is by speaking to someone who’s in the trenches over an ex too…

The other day a young lad (assuming he’s young, he asked for people to reach out to him on SnapChat) posted that he wanted to connect with other people who are getting over an ex. I’m not sure, but I think it may have been his first breakup. I felt bad for him. Haven’t we all been there?

Anyway, I got to thinking that it might be a good idea to have a post whereby people can share their social media channels in order to connect with other people who are going through it. Previously we had a Breakup Buddy post where I tried to match up people, but I don’t have that much time to connect people so this way seems better.

So Tell Us Who and Where You Are

Comment below, giving us a bit of information about you. Share who are you, where are you, and tell everyone how long your relationship with your lasted and when it ended.

(FYI: We have a separate, very popular place, for people to share How, When and Where their breakup happened but no links are allowed on that post…this one is different)

Then share where can people find you online. Don’t list every single link – maybe just the top three?

Let me be clear, this is only a post that is asking for people to share their links to their personal Facebook profiles, Twitter profiles, Instagram accounts, or SnapChat.

This is not a place to promote their book, album, course, website, app or anything else.

Essentially it’s not about promotion it’s about connection.

No spammy posts will be approved.

#RalphSays - #JSSAMOQuality Control – Are You For Real?

Though I don’t have time to closely verify every single person who comes on this site and comments with their links, I will do my best to moderate and double check the links that people share.

As much as possible I will aim to ensure the people are “legit”. But I can’t responsible beyond that – be safe when communicating with anyone you meet online.

This post is simply the one place I will allow people to link to their personal profiles – with the hope that people will connect and help each other over their broken hearts.

SYBD Connect…

So You’ve Been Dumped has been helping people going through breakups for eighteen years. Feel free to reach out to So You’ve Been Dumped on the SYBD Facebook page. There is also an SYBD Twitter profile if tweeting is more your thing. You may find the 12 Stages of a Break up Video help too.

Now please comment below! (When speaking about an ex, please no full names and no profanity…)

9 thought on “Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too”

  1. Really Confused

    My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me last Thursday via Snapchat (classy, right?). The last two weeks, when he returned from a two day business trip, I felt a shift. I figured i was being paranoid, and asked him, “What’s wrong?” He said nothing, and I asked, “Are we okay?” He said yes. Everything was great- we were talking about ways to meet his parents last week! Last Saturday, actually. He was laughing about how similar to my mom he is, and exclaimed she and i would probably be best friends.

    The last time Is aw him (last Sunday 03/18), he said goodbye after dropping me off at home, hugged me and kissed my forehead. He said “I love you, babe.” I smiled and said I love him too. Then he stopped talking to me after that night. So Thursday I texted him, he didn’t respond. That was okay, it happens. We talked all the time, so I called him on a 15 minute break. It was the first time in our relationship that he didn’t answer the phone. He called back after I had gone in. He texted me, “I missed your call :-/” I said “I’m aware lol.” “Why did you call?” “Oh I was on a break and missed you so I thought I’d call.” “I miss you too.” Then, four hours later, he Snapchatted me saying “I’m not happy.” Then said he never really loved me.


  2. Bowie Lover

    My boyfriend broke up with me a month and a half ago. He said he wasn’t capable of loving me and didn’t want to be in a serious relationship as we are about to transfer to school out of state and we weren’t sure wether we’d be nearby each other. We both still have 6 months left before we go off to school and I want to spend them with him. He wanted to continue to go on dates and hook up but not be my boyfriend. I politely declined and have since not contacted him in a month and a half after telling him we needed no contact for three months. However, I thought I’d be over it by now. Should I contact him? This song came on this morning that I felt like was a sign I should and I miss him so much. Im just crazy about him. Also I should say he dumped me a week after I told him I lived him on Valentines Day… also he’s 21 and I’m 23 so there’s a bit of a maturity difference.

  3. Ada Doom

    Hi y’all. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me because he felt like he really just needed to be selfish for now and being with me he would never be entirely able to do so as he felt bad for treating me like shit and these feelings stopped him from being happy as they took the focus away from him and his feelings cause, yknow, they are the only thing that actually matter in this world.

    I would love to connect with people going tthrough a similar situation as all my friends are either happily married or happily single so I don’t feel I have as much in common with them. My instagram is antje_al 🙂

  4. Kate

    Hello from Poland. My story is about an on-and-off relationship with a man who serially dumped me over 5 years. Now he’s moving out although he keeps saying that he feels miserable. It’s just that “he is not the Family Man” (we have two sons, aged 5 and 7). I feel terrible. Looking for anyone going through a similar tragedy…….

  5. Arghya Mukherjee

    Hey guys. My girlfriend and i broke up over the phone about three months back. We were in a true LDR for 6 years. I got into a severe depression last December with the sudden loss of my workplace, deterioration of my mother’s health, financial issues and the never ending nature of our LDR. I had become too emotionally dependent on her. She was busy and we barely talked through the week. On the weekends she would go out while I wanted her to give me time. I should have talked to other people but i did not. I needed her. I could feel the distance growing but i was too weak. Fights ensued. Ugly and with a lot of shouting and crying. It was difficult. I knew it was not me and that we needed to get through this. She came back and we had another bad one and it was over. She had convinced herself that this was not healthy, and that it was too much. She asked for time to make a final decision. I waited. Silent and not disturbing her. No calls and very infrequent texts. She went back out of the country, without seeing me. Very infrequent texts were still happening when after 15 days it completely stopped. After 20 more days i called her and she confirmed she did not want me anymore and wanted to be with someone new and more compatible. It was like someone had ripped my heart out. I was suffocating and delirious. I was sick for days later, but i did not call or text her. The thing is we had sacrificed 6 years of our life to this. and it all came down to nothing.

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  6. Scottie

    Hiya my name is Scottie I was dumped June 2017 1 year ago by my then Girlfriend in which I dated for 4 years.
    lest just say I have been dumped before and even divorced. i married to my wife for 5 years. and had 2 children with her.
    this particular break up has hit me the hardest. I am now dating somebody knew, but I still have cravings and feelings towards my ex. I know i should of been able to move on by now , but I still miss her every single day.

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