Tag Archives: No Contact
Considering No Contact? Think Small
[Translate] One of the hardest things anyone going through a breakup ever has to contend with – is the cutting off of the contact that we’ve grown so accustomed to. Whether it was texts, emails, phone calls, or face to … Continue reading
Joys & Perils of No Contact (NC)
[Translate] ED NOTE: First of all, I apologise for the silence on the SYBD blog. Been on holiday in California for several weeks and so “breakup blogging” wasn’t really at the forefront of my mind. . . That said, our … Continue reading
REAL THREAD: Dumped So Hard My Butt Still Hurts
[Translate] Going through the SYBD archives from more than a decade ago now, I been coming across all kinds of interesting and universal posts – which has been inspirational to me on many levels. From the earliest few days of … Continue reading
THEA: Emotional Potholes on my Path to Recovery
[Translate] The road to recovery could easily be described as being filled with emotional potholes. Today I figured I’d write a little about how I’ve felt and how I dealt with my own break ups. Please note from the onset … Continue reading
SYBD: Do What Works For YOU!
[Translate] Take Your Own Road to Recovery I was talking to one of my best friends on the phone tonight. He just happens to be going through a protracted break up of a long-term relationship. A social creature, not unlike … Continue reading
HELP: “I’m Back to Square One & I Was Doing So Well!”
[Translate] “I can’t believe I feel this way after all this time.” Almost every day, for more than a decade, someone has logged in to our community expressing this sort of sentiment in some shape or form. The fact is … Continue reading
Serena’s Sage Suggestions – Take My Advice, I’m Not Using it (part three)
[Translate] Welcome to the third, and final, installment of Serena’s Sage Solutions – Take My Advice I’m Not Using it. Today’s blog entry pertains to the area of having contact with our ex. Contact, I often find, is a very … Continue reading
REAL THREAD: Breaking “No Contact” One Year On
[Translate] Today I logged onto the forum to read a post from a site member who broke No Contact (NC) one year after their split. You can perhaps imagine how went – in the best possible scenario…Talking for hours just … Continue reading
MEMBER’S ADVICE: On No Contact
[Translate] Four years ago a girl called Debbie wrote the following post (only slightly re-edited to frame stuff in a more positive way) about the No Contact Rule. My first comment is there are no RULES in recovery – only … Continue reading
BOUNCED BACK: Ouch from Oregon’s Story
[Translate] A thirty-four year old musician in Oregon, Ouch (*obviously not his real name!) met his girlfriend while on tour with his band in Helsinki. He joined our community when his one-year, trans-continental relationship came to a fizzling end thousands … Continue reading
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