Tag Archives: Life

SYBD: 50 Life Lessons Worth Sharing

[Translate] The following 50 lines were posted on our forum by a girl Juillet507 five years ago. In researching something else (affirmations)  I came across them and decided to re-post it here on the SYBD blog. After a bit of … Continue reading

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THEA: “Look for the Good & Praise it”

[Translate] When I was young, my mother had a hair salon in the top floor of our home. On the mirror in it, was a bumper sticker stating, “look for the good and praise it”. It wasn’t until a few … Continue reading

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REAL STORIES: Post Break-Up Reflections From a Floridian Nurse

[Translate] Scamper, a nurse from Florida, stumbled onto soyouvebeendumped.com when her six-month relationship ended some years ago. She found herself living in a new area, didn’t have many friends, and in dire need of support. There is a phrase in … Continue reading

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SYBD: Finding Other Supportive Forums

[Translate] Well folks, we survived Christmas and Boxing Day (well if you’re reading this, you did too) for another year…Well done! Now we’re down to the final week of our ex-change – the SYBD online forum. The news has been … Continue reading

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THEA: 20 Things I’m Thankful For…

[Translate] Attitude of Gratitude Happy Thanksgiving to my fellow Americans  – and to those in the rest of the world as well. Thanksgiving is not about the Pilgrims and Indians breaking bread, to me, but as a reminder of how … Continue reading

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THEA: On Broken Hips and Hearts

[Translate] Two weeks ago my seventy-eight year old father called to say he’d fallen, was in the hospital and broke his hip. He had phoned me a few hours before he was going in to surgery to have the hip … Continue reading

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REAL THREAD: Breaking “No Contact” One Year On

[Translate] Today I logged onto the forum to read a post from a site member who broke No Contact (NC) one year after their split. You can perhaps imagine how went – in the best possible scenario…Talking for hours just … Continue reading

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SYBD: The Future of So You’ve Been Dumped

[Translate] No Dumping! Apologies for radio silence from Dumped HQ. I’ve recently returned from a month in California, and frankly it feels like it is going to take a month to get back into the swing of things here in … Continue reading

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SYBD GUEST BLOG: Reality Chick’s Dating Tips for Guys

Back on the dating beat after a long break – and need a heads up on
the type of women you may encounter? Here’s our fun list, along with tips on
how to handle each ‘type’. (Girls, have a read to see if you need to adjust
your game-plan a tad!) Continue reading

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THEA: What Determines a Successful Relationship?

[Translate] “I Do” How long does a relationship have to be in order to be deemed  “successful”? A year? Five years? Fifteen or fifty? Or can one that only lasted weeks be successful? What criteria determines a successful relationship? I … Continue reading

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