Category Archives: Connections

SYBD NEWS: A New Forum – Coming Soon

Posted on June 25, 2011 by thea

[Translate] One of my main mantras has always been – “busy is good”, and 2011 has, arguably, been one of my busiest years to date. I’ve literally thrown myself into work, traveled frequently (home and away), and had the odd … Continue reading →

Posted in Celebration, Communication, Community, Connections, Forum, Life | Tagged , , | 4 Comments

THEA: Men with Break Ups, Pain & Suffering

Posted on June 11, 2011 by thea

[Translate] Bumpy Road Ahead WARNING: The following blog may or may not make a heap of sense…It’s a Saturday morning, I’ve just woken up, and I am sitting on my bed typing some of my random musings on love and … Continue reading →

Posted in Break-up, Communication, Connections, empower, Endings, Fear, Feelings, Fulfillment, Heal | Tagged , , , , | 17 Comments

SYBD: Ex Moved On? Relax, It’s Not a Race…

Posted on March 15, 2011 by thea

[Translate] Losing the Race I often spout the words that “no one likes to be replaced”, and I believe that this goes just as much for dumpers as dumpees. (I even wrote a lengthy blog pertaining to this very subject … Continue reading →

Posted in advice, Connections, Dating, Emotions, ex, Forgiveness, Fulfillment, Healing, Love, moving on, rebound, Relationship, resilience | Tagged , , , , | 12 Comments

THEA: Life is Unfair (Kill Yourself or Get Over it)

Posted on December 14, 2010 by thea

[Translate] Last night, I was  driving home from work listening to a mixed-tape that a friend just gave me, when Black Box Recorder’s “Child Psychology” came on. I really had to laugh at his choice of tracks because 1)  I … Continue reading →

Posted in Community, Connections, Endings, Forum, Future, iPhone App, Life, moving on, perspective, Relationship, Site Closure, Time, Web Site | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

SYBD: Who Are You Anyway? (Survey # 1 Needs Your Input)

Posted on March 9, 2010 by thea

[Translate] FOR SYBD MEMBERS (PAST & PRESENT) AND VISITORS TOO: Who are you? That’s what we at SYBD really need to know. Because we care about what you think, feel and need, I’ve created a short survey to find out … Continue reading →

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THEA: An Antidote to Valentine’s Day – My Story

Posted on February 1, 2010 by thea

[Translate] Well, here we are February 1st – which means that we are less than two weeks away from that day that, arguably, singletons the world over D R E A D the most… So why don’t you let Auntie … Continue reading →

Posted in Break-up, Celebration, Connections, Forgiveness, friends, Future, Life, Love, Marriage, Music, Rejection, Relationship, Single | Tagged , , , | 3 Comments

SYBD: From Lost and Hopeless to Healed and Hopeful

Posted on January 7, 2010 by thea

[Translate] No Dumping! Here we are the first post in 2010. It’s a little challenging to believe that this year will mark the tenth anniversary of this site and indeed playing Agony Auntie to the world’s lovelorn. In that time, … Continue reading →

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HELP: Guide to Surviving the Holidays (Solo)

Posted on December 11, 2009 by thea

[Translate] Six months before the turn of the century, I was relieved of my girlfriend duties (read: dumped). Due to work commitments and extortionate peak-time airfares, I was forced to spend my first holidays, ever, alone. The threat of a … Continue reading →

Posted in Break-up, Celebration, Charity, Christmas, Connections, empower, ex, facebook, Family, Future, Goals, Health, Holidays, Life, moving on, Relationship, resilience, support, Time | Tagged , , , , | 5 Comments

SYBD: Need a Break Up Buddy?

Posted on December 5, 2009 by thea

[Translate] Moving On WE NO LONGER HAVE A FORUM (AT PRESENT) BUT WE CAN STILL OFFER A BREAK-UP BUDDY SOLUTION IN OUR COMMENTS SECTION! ******************************** “Misery loves company” – isn’t that what they say? Nowhere is that truer  than on  … Continue reading →

Posted in Break-up, Community, Connections, Contact, Life, moving on, Relationship, resilience, support | Tagged , , , , | 23 Comments