Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too

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Wanna Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too?

Here’s a post especially for all who are going through breakups and hoping to speak to others personally and privately about their ex…Sometimes the best help we can get is by speaking to someone who’s in the trenches over an ex too…

The other day a young lad (assuming he’s young, he asked for people to reach out to him on SnapChat) posted that he wanted to connect with other people who are getting over an ex. I’m not sure, but I think it may have been his first breakup. I felt bad for him. Haven’t we all been there?

Anyway, I got to thinking that it might be a good idea to have a post whereby people can share their social media channels in order to connect with other people who are going through it. Previously we had a Breakup Buddy post where I tried to match up people, but I don’t have that much time to connect people so this way seems better.

So Tell Us Who and Where You Are

Comment below, giving us a bit of information about you. Share who are you, where are you, and tell everyone how long your relationship with your lasted and when it ended.

(FYI: We have a separate, very popular place, for people to share How, When and Where their breakup happened but no links are allowed on that post…this one is different)

Then share where can people find you online. Don’t list every single link – maybe just the top three?

Let me be clear, this is only a post that is asking for people to share their links to their personal Facebook profiles, Twitter profiles, Instagram accounts, or SnapChat.

This is not a place to promote their book, album, course, website, app or anything else.

Essentially it’s not about promotion it’s about connection.

No spammy posts will be approved.

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Quality Control – Are You For Real?

Though I don’t have time to closely verify every single person who comes on this site and comments with their links, I will do my best to moderate and double check the links that people share.

As much as possible I will aim to ensure the people are “legit”. But I can’t responsible beyond that – be safe when communicating with anyone you meet online.

This post is simply the one place I will allow people to link to their personal profiles – with the hope that people will connect and help each other over their broken hearts.

SYBD Connect…

So You’ve Been Dumped has been helping people going through breakups for eighteen years. Feel free to reach out to So You’ve Been Dumped on the SYBD Facebook page. There is also an SYBD Twitter profile if tweeting is more your thing. You may find the 12 Stages of a Break up Video help too.

Now please comment below! (When speaking about an ex, please no full names and no profanity…)

5 thoughts on “Connect With Others Going Through Breakups Too

  • March 1, 2018 at 8:34 AM
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    Hallo,

    I’m John from Scotland. Serially dumped by the same person three times over an eight year period. I’m determined that it’s not going to happen again, no matter how much I may still love her.

    I’m here on Fb: https://facebook.com/john.skullfingers

  • March 25, 2018 at 11:39 PM
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    My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me last Thursday via Snapchat (classy, right?). The last two weeks, when he returned from a two day business trip, I felt a shift. I figured i was being paranoid, and asked him, “What’s wrong?” He said nothing, and I asked, “Are we okay?” He said yes. Everything was great- we were talking about ways to meet his parents last week! Last Saturday, actually. He was laughing about how similar to my mom he is, and exclaimed she and i would probably be best friends.

    The last time Is aw him (last Sunday 03/18), he said goodbye after dropping me off at home, hugged me and kissed my forehead. He said “I love you, babe.” I smiled and said I love him too. Then he stopped talking to me after that night. So Thursday I texted him, he didn’t respond. That was okay, it happens. We talked all the time, so I called him on a 15 minute break. It was the first time in our relationship that he didn’t answer the phone. He called back after I had gone in. He texted me, “I missed your call :-/” I said “I’m aware lol.” “Why did you call?” “Oh I was on a break and missed you so I thought I’d call.” “I miss you too.” Then, four hours later, he Snapchatted me saying “I’m not happy.” Then said he never really loved me.

    …what!?

  • April 2, 2018 at 10:25 PM
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    My boyfriend broke up with me a month and a half ago. He said he wasn’t capable of loving me and didn’t want to be in a serious relationship as we are about to transfer to school out of state and we weren’t sure wether we’d be nearby each other. We both still have 6 months left before we go off to school and I want to spend them with him. He wanted to continue to go on dates and hook up but not be my boyfriend. I politely declined and have since not contacted him in a month and a half after telling him we needed no contact for three months. However, I thought I’d be over it by now. Should I contact him? This song came on this morning that I felt like was a sign I should and I miss him so much. Im just crazy about him. Also I should say he dumped me a week after I told him I lived him on Valentines Day… also he’s 21 and I’m 23 so there’s a bit of a maturity difference.

  • April 29, 2018 at 3:52 PM
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    Hi y’all. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me because he felt like he really just needed to be selfish for now and being with me he would never be entirely able to do so as he felt bad for treating me like shit and these feelings stopped him from being happy as they took the focus away from him and his feelings cause, yknow, they are the only thing that actually matter in this world.

    I would love to connect with people going tthrough a similar situation as all my friends are either happily married or happily single so I don’t feel I have as much in common with them. My instagram is antje_al 🙂

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