Monthly Archives: December 2009

FUN: What To Do With Those (Unwanted) Digital Pics of Your Ex…

Well, as many of you who are regular readers of the blog know, we’re in the process of building our first ever iPhone application. It’s all terribly exciting and frankly I can’t wait to unveil it. I don’t want to … Continue reading

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SYBD: Wishing You a Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas “We wish you a Merry Christmas,… We wish you a Merry Christmas…” Well, I realise that we’re a global site, and that not everyone celebrates Christmas,…so if that’s you – I apologize in advance for this post… For … Continue reading

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SYBD: Avoidance (aka Floating Down That River in Africa…)

Since launching SYBD nearly 10 years ago, I’ve compiled my own 12-stages of recovery and instead of waiting for my book to be published, I thought I’d continue to share the chapters (at least in part) here on the blog. … Continue reading

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THEA: More Lessons Learned from SYBD

Journey @ Night Back in November, I started a series about things I’ve been learning from running the web’s longest-running break-up portal. Lesson 1 was that there is no good way to dump.  For today’s post, I thought I’d add … Continue reading

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HELP: Guide to Surviving the Holidays (Solo)

Six months before the turn of the century, I was relieved of my girlfriend duties (read: dumped). Due to work commitments and extortionate peak-time airfares, I was forced to spend my first holidays, ever, alone. The threat of a solo … Continue reading

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GUEST BLOG: Lisa Daily – “The Tiger Woods Affair – Why Nice Guys Cheat”

Tiger Woods Today sees the return of Relationship & Dating Expert Lisa Daily on the subject of infidelity. More specifically she talks about the seemingly squeaky clean golfer – Tiger Woods and his recent shenanigans. Lisa looks for reasons why … Continue reading

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SYBD: Need a Break Up Buddy?

Moving On WE NO LONGER HAVE A FORUM (AT PRESENT) BUT WE CAN STILL OFFER A BREAK-UP BUDDY SOLUTION IN OUR COMMENTS SECTION! ******************************** “Misery loves company” – isn’t that what they say? Nowhere is that truer  than on  So … Continue reading

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MEMBERS ADVICE: Pay It Forward

Further to last week’s blog about Surviving the Holidays by Helping Others…I thought I’d offer some of the site member’s suggestions for focusing on others. These suggestions come from a thread about Random Acts of Kindness that was started more … Continue reading

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